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🌳 How to Make Any Problem Temporary: The Stoic Way
How to see your biggest problem as just a temporary chapter
💭 Quote of the Week
Let us prepare our minds as if we'd come to the very end of life. Let us postpone nothing. Let us balance life's books each day. … The one who puts the finishing touches on their life each day is never short of time.
There's something strangely calming about this quote, isn't there?
It's not about death. It's about freedom. Seneca isn't suggesting we obsess over mortality—he's offering us the ultimate perspective shift. By living each day as if it could be our last, we gain something powerful: clarity. We see our current stresses for what they truly are—temporary states. They will pass. Everything does.
When you truly understand life's brevity, the small stuff falls away. What remains? Only what matters.
💡 Stoic Lesson of The Week
My wife and I are drowning in the chaos of moving to Seattle. Boxes everywhere. Back aching. Moving company just rescheduled (again).
Then it happened. My wife took a deep breath and said: "I keep reminding myself that this stressful part is only temporary."
A proud Stoic husband moment! Without knowing it, she'd tapped into the most powerful technique for navigating chaos.
The Stoics never promised to help you avoid overwhelming moments. Instead, they offered something better: a lens to see clearly through the storm while everyone else gets swept away.
"Nothing lasts forever - not even your troubles," Marcus Aurelius reminded himself. Not positive thinking fluff. Cosmic perspective.
The Stoics practiced Memento Mori - "Remember you will die." Not morbid. Liberating. When you zoom out to see your crisis against the backdrop of your entire life, everything shifts. That deadline feels less apocalyptic. The argument loses its sting.
This isn't about minimizing problems—it's about seeing them in proportion. When you remember everything is temporary, you gain clarity to respond rather than just react.
🎯 Your Action Plan
When overwhelmed: Take three deep breaths and say "This too shall pass" - not wishful thinking, but cosmic fact. This perspective shift breaks anxiety's grip instantly.
Morning ritual: Try "calendar zooming" - open your calendar app and view the entire year. Notice how today's stress is just one tiny moment in a much larger timeline.
Try This Now: Close your eyes for 10 seconds and picture your biggest current stressor, then imagine yourself one year from now looking back at it. Notice how different it looks with time between you and it.
📖 Story Time
Seneca, ancient Rome's equivalent of a billionaire CEO, suddenly loses everything when Emperor Nero banishes him to a barren island. Most of us would collapse.
Instead, Seneca produced his most profound philosophical works during exile. Rather than seeing it as an ending, he treated it as merely a middle chapter.
The mind-blowing part? Eight years later, he returned to Rome more influential than before. His supposed "career-ending disaster" became just another temporary phase in a remarkable life.
Makes you rethink whatever's stressing you out today, doesn't it?
🤔 Takeaway
Your problems are real. Your stress is valid. But nothing - not even your biggest challenges - will last forever. This isn't wishful thinking; it's cosmic fact. And remembering this doesn't just make you feel better; it makes you more effective in handling whatever life throws at you.
✍️ Journal Prompt
Think about your current biggest challenge and write down: "If my best friend had my exact problem, what advice would I give them?"
Your answer often contains the perspective you need but aren't giving yourself.
📚 Worth Your Time
High Agency In 30 Minutes (George Mack)
Stoicism for Stress Relief - A practical, quick read for applying Stoic lessons to minimize stress and stay calm (Alexander Clarke)
Stoic Quote 3: Suffer More Often in Imagination than in Reality (Via Stoica Podcast
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